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Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life © A.J. Mahari March 2010

Change Your Life - Change Your Thoughts Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Punishment and Revenge in BPD Ebook by A.J. Mahari © A.J. Mahari 2010

Punishment and Revenge in BPD Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines Ebook by A.J. Mahari © A.J. Mahari 2007

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines Ebook by A.J. Mahari

The Power of Gratitude - Healing - Recovery - Wellness and Getting Unstuck © A.J. Mahari December 2010

The Power of Gratitude Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Quest For Self - Building Conscious Self Awareness - Ebook/Coaching Guide/Workbook and Audio © A.J. Mahari January 2011

Quest For Self - Building Conscious Self Awareness Ebook and Audio by A.J. Mahari

H.O.P.E. In Borderline Personality Disorder


This site offers hope for Borderline Personality Disorder. There is hope for recovery if you have Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have BPD you may well have to search long and hard for hope. Search as long and as hard as it takes. Part of the journey requires this search for hope. It is the search for and the finding some belief in hope that is the way to get on the road to recovery.

Hope is made up of help - learning to help yourself if you have BPD; Optimism - learning to replace negative thoughts with neutral ones and later positive thoughts; Perspective - challenging your current perspective which is based upon your past experience; Enigma - learning to unwind the maze of enigma that has your lost authentic self and your dissociated from inner child housed within it and peeling back the layers of borderline defenses revealing not only hope but the mystery to the puzzle of who you really are.


Hope and BPD

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Hope can be elusive when you have Borderline Personality Disorder. It is the defense mechanisms employed by the false self in BPD that perpetuate a negative pattern of thinking - thinking that is often highly distorted - that keeps those with BPD effectively blocked from the awareness that they need to get in touch with in order to facilitate the possibility of finding and learning to hold out hope. This hope awaits your attention to it and nurturing of it - you must open enough to allow this possibility for hope to rise up from deep within you. There is hope, deep down inside, locked and hidden away, in the lost and wounded abandoned child of each and every person with BPD.

© A.J. Mahari February 14, 2008


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The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

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