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Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life © A.J. Mahari March 2010

Change Your Life - Change Your Thoughts Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Punishment and Revenge in BPD Ebook by A.J. Mahari © A.J. Mahari 2010

Punishment and Revenge in BPD Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines Ebook by A.J. Mahari © A.J. Mahari 2007

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines Ebook by A.J. Mahari

The Power of Gratitude - Healing - Recovery - Wellness and Getting Unstuck © A.J. Mahari December 2010

The Power of Gratitude Ebook by A.J. Mahari

Quest For Self - Building Conscious Self Awareness - Ebook/Coaching Guide/Workbook and Audio © A.J. Mahari January 2011

Quest For Self - Building Conscious Self Awareness Ebook and Audio by A.J. Mahari


2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - bpdfamily.ca

2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for Those with BPD & BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - borderlinepersonality.typepad.com



BPD and PTSD
Going Through The Motions
Are You BPD or Do You Have BPD?
BPD Speak
An Ode to Loss
BPD: Will Any Relationship Do?

2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - bpdfamily.ca

2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for Those with BPD & BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - borderlinepersonality.typepad.com





Borderline Chase For Health
The False Self & Spiral of Loss
BPD and Crisis
Regrets: The Pain, the sadness
Self-Harm Defense To Abandonment

2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - bpdfamily.ca

2008-2016 Articles - Blog Posts for Those with BPD & BPD Family Members/Loved Ones by A.J. Mahari - borderlinepersonality.typepad.com


3 Non Borderline Audio Programs Package










A.J. Mahari is currently writing a memoir about her life and experience as a person who had two parents with Borderline Personality Disorder, as a person who was diagnosed herself with BPD at the age of 19 and from her perspective as someone who has recovered from BPD. There is a new section on her BPD Blog called The Diary - My Borderline Years where A.J. Mahari shares snipets of experience from her own life that will give you just a small peak into what her memoir will include.


The Shame of Abandonment in BPD

BPD and Abandonment

Inside The Borderline Mind - For Non Borderlines

Audio Program "Preparing For Recovery From BPD" Parts 1 & 2 by A.J. Mahari

Audio Program Rage Addiction in BPD by A.J. Mahari (sold separately or packaged with Mahari's Ebook, "Rage and BPD")









A.J. has an audio program, available now on the subject of CHANGE that will be of benefit to those with BPD and Non Borderlines.

This audio program is an enlightening examination about the ins and outs of change. The reality is that change is a part of all of our lives. It is more challenging for some people than others in various ways. However, the challenge of the newness of any change is often what inhibits our ability to achieve much-desired and/or much-needed change. This is the challenge for anyone, whether they have BPD or not.

In the audio program, "Change" A.J. Mahari talks about the stages of change, the foundation of change, what change is and why it is part of everyone's lives and what the main obstacles to change are. A.J. talks about the significance of self-concept and what empowers or hinders our efforts to create and sustain change in our lives. Mahari also explains the importance of awareness and choices along with awesome gifts that the process of any change offers to us.



Audio ProgramFrom False Self To Authentic Self in BPD - Getting In Touch With Your Inner Child

If you'd like to purchase this audio program with one or all 3 of A.J.'s "Core Wound of Abandonment Series Ebooks please go to Phoenix Rising Audio


A.J.'s Ebooks and Audios

All articles (and/or blog posts, videos - video podcast and audio podcast content) listed above, were written by and are © Ms. A.J. Mahari 1995-2015. All rights reserved. These articles cannot be re-produced, re-printed (in any form of media - including online) without the expressed written permission of A.J. Mahari. If you wish to include an article from this index on your web site please link back directly to the article(s) at this location as opposed to re-producing them on your web site, again, unless you obtain permission to re-produce any article written by A.J. Mahari from A.J. Mahari please link back only.



Last up-dated January 2, 2016









BPD - Feeling Alone



The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non Borderlines © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Lost Self in BPD



Break Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines Audio Program © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Lost Self in BPD

5 Bundle Set Ebooks - Core Wound In BPD © A.J. Mahari 2006

5 Bundle Set Ebooks - Core Wound In BPD

Adult Child of BPD Mother in Search For Closure Audio © A.J. Mahari 2006



A.J. Mahariís Thought Changing Affirmations 5 Volume Set © A.J. Mahari 2006

The Lost Self in BPD