What is Abandonment?

Abandonment is often misunderstood by many with BPD. It is much more than emotional or physical abandonment.

Abandonment has often been thought of by many to be of a physical nature - as in desertion and neglect or primarily of an emotional nature - as in when a child is not nurtured or given the necessary attention and healthy love to feel safe and secure.

Both of these situations or realities do constitute forms of abandonment. There are other types of abandonment that are often significant in the lives of those who end up diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.

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• Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES
• Non Borderlines - You can purchase 6 ebooks packaged together with or without audio.
• Those with BPD and/or Non Borderlines can purchase A.J. Mahari's 3 "Core Wound of Abandonment" series ebooks packaged together with or without audio.

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Abandonment is:

• a feeling
• a feeling of disconnection
• a feeling of loss
• an aloneness and longing loneliness
• intense feelings of being devastated when a relationship ends
• fearing loss so much that one is too afraid to even risk being connected
• a mother leaving her child
• a father leaving his child
• death of a pet
• loss of a job or career
• moving
• a boy or girl realizing they are homosexual and fearing rejection
• being rejected
• lack of purpose
• not knowing who you are
• a child’s agitation in response to emotionally unavailable parents
• death of a loved one
• loss of a friend
• a woman alone after her husband cheats on her
• a divorce
• a cold distant parent
• a family’s “don’t talk” rule
• being emotionally, sexually, or verbally abused

Abandonment is a deep and abiding wound at the epicentre or heart of human experience. It is a painful and empty feeling. It is at the heart of the causation and also the way to recovery from Borderline Personality. The core wound of abandonment, as A.J. Mahari calls it, leaves a legacy that many experience as the issues that Borderline Personality (not a great way to describe them) actually means in terms of insecure or a lack of attachment. In her capacity of a BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, helps people with BPD to gain awareness and learn new ways of thinking, coping, and a variety of skills using an eclectic and multiple treatment modality that Mahari tailors to each client. She also works with those with abandonment issues who do not have BPD as well as BPD loved ones.

A.J.'s 5 Core/Legacy of Abandonment in BPDBundled Ebook Package

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• Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES
• Non Borderlines - You can purchase 6 ebooks packaged together with or without audio.
• Those with BPD and/or Non Borderlines can purchase A.J. Mahari's 3 "Core Wound of Abandonment" series ebooks packaged together with or without audio.

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