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Non Borderline Confusion – Why Does The Borderline Do What He or She Does?
© A.J. Mahari, September 7, 2007
Are you a non borderline in a significant other relationship with someone who you suspect or know has Borderline Personality Disorder?
Are you confused and hurting because you don’t know whether you are coming or going? Are you hurt and/or upset often? Are you experiencing this boy/girlfriend or spouse or partner as loving one minute, angry, raging, and/or abusive the next minute? Are you walking on egg shells?
The question I am asked most often in email, and there are many, relates to what I think is the confusion of many non borderlines. Whether or not the question is asked in these words or not, most emails include the question, “Why Does The Borderline Do What He or She Does?”
in your life.
I had BPD for 33 years of my life. I know it inside and out. I write about it. I have these web sites, and guess what, I still ended up, not only in a relationship with someone with BPD, but trying to rescue, help, and save them, and humbly, I say to you, that in spite of all that I do know about both sides of BPD I could not save my borderline ex at all - I had to save myself. Each and every one of us can only effect change in our own lives - we cannot do this in the lives of others, no matter how much we may love them or care about them - and not even when we NEED that change to save a relationship - not even then.
My audio program might be a very helpful and supportive exploration for you of what might still have you confused or even in denial. I hope that you will find a way to stop negating the reality of your situation. Haven't you suffered enough?
- 3 Non Borderline Ebooks
- 6 Non Borderline Ebooks
- 3 Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD Series of Ebooks
- Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder The Lost Self The Impact of The Core Wound of Abandonment Ebook 1
- Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder The Rock and a Hard Place in BPD The Impact of The Core Wound of Abandonment Ebook 2
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